It was interesting to read the recommendation which stated that one should emotionally distance oneself from the suffering. I think that would be very tough to do when dealing with your own parent. It seems very wise nonetheless because how could anyone offer help to their parent when they are emotionally distraught? I never thought of the emotional part that goes along with raising a parent. It was definitely interesting to see his perspective.
When he talks about having patience I viewed this as an understatement. I cannot imagine the amount of patience one would have to have when raising a parent but I think it would be along the same lines as having a child. I never thought about how you would need patience with your family as well because it is sure to affect them as well. You have to think of how it will affect your spouse and your children as well as your job and possibly your lifestyle. Finances will undoubtly change if you take your parents in. Like he says, other may be involved and it must be taken into consideration.
When he talks about his mother going from independent and hard working to having to ultimately move in with him it made me sad again. I never thought of all of the transitions people have to go to as they age but it seems like a steady struggle as one ages. This makes me want to make sure I take care of my parents even more so.
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